Date of Birth: November 11, 1952
Date of Death: January 06, 2023
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of our dear mother, Pamela Diane Graf who passed away on January 6th, 2023 at the age of 70 after a long battle of many health ailments and diseases. She fought a long, and hard battle, while residing in Phoenix Arizona. She was born on November 11th, 1952 to Robert Franklin and Bettina Edith Graf in Long Beach, California. She was raised in Cave Creek, Arizona. She had two children, Joseph and Jennifer Lowery. She was a wonderful mother who always put her children and family first. She had a lifelong career in bartending. Many of her patrons became life long friends and she considered them as part of her family. She took pride and enjoyed entertaining with friends and family, along with cooking, baking, planting, drawing, dancing, and relaxing with her best friend, her dog, Luci LuLu. She was a very loving mother, friend, sister, aunt, and grandmother. She showed grace and compassion to all whom she would meet. She was predeceased by her father Robert, her mother Bettina, her brother Ronny, and her grandson Blayke. She is survived by her siblings Annette, Roberta, Betsy, Ellen, and Jimmy, her children Joseph (Stacey), Jennifer (Iggy), her grandchild Tyler, and her great grandchild Freya. Family and friends can send flowers and condolences in memory of the loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Pamela Diane Graf to pay them a last tribute.
Service Information
Services will be held at Best Funeral Services, 501 E Dunlap Ave, Phoenix Arizona 85020 On January 28th, 2023 at 10am
Contributions
Arizona Border Collie Rescue P.O. Box 10717 Tempe, AZ 85284-0012 www.azbcr.org 501C3 All receipts will be mailed out to you.
I am so sorry for your loss Jennifer. I’m sending prayers to you and your family ❤️
Oh how I miss you my beautiful sister. You were there for me through the thick and thin of life and we experienced many things together. I loved you then and I love you now and miss talking to you. You were always my favorite sister but even more then that you were my friend! Thank you, for loving me and always having an ear to hear when I needed to talk and find level ground. Your journey wasn’t easy here and I can only imagine what your heart holds now. Someday, we will meet again of this I am sure.
Pam is in the arms of Jesus! Hold fast all those precious memories! Praying for your comfort!
This women was once a stranger and became a second family to me.. she literally gave me someone she never met a roof over my head jus to help so I wouldn’t be stranded on the street… she gave me food she welcome me with open arms and gave me bed to sleep on she treated me like I was her own I can’t believe she’s gone rest in peace u will always be in my heart and I will miss u
I didn’t have the chance to get to know Pam to well but always felt like I knew her. I would listen to memories told by Lyle with a smile on his face talking about her. Then, I had the pleasure if sitting down at Thanksgiving dinner with Pam and her family. And what a pleasure it was. Although she will be missed, I am very happy to have had the chance to meet her and listen to the memories with the family. I’m sorry for your loss. Love you all
I miss you my Pammie! Sisters in Christ. It was a great please and honor having met you Jen and Pammie when I did. You have an amazing Angel watching over you. I asked daddy and mama to find her and show her around. May Pammie Rest in Eternal Peace, until we see each other again.
All my love, prayers and support to my family for the loss of my Aunt Pam. It’s always harder for the ones left behind than the one crossing over. They aren’t hurting anymore and meeting our other loved ones can only be met with joy. The pain of the loss on this side is so overwhelming and excruciating that I’m sending my virtual hugs to all of my family. I love you!
Your Momma was one of my favorite Aunts. I know that she is happy and no more in pain, so that comforts me. My heart breaks for all of her loved ones left beyond.
miss you my beautiful friend…. love you , bit know you are singing with the angels and enjoying being reunited with your puppy and family
Pammy, the memories are too many to list. You were such an integral part of my life, my mom and dad’s life, and the girls’ lives. The laughs were immeasurable, the tears shortly behind. I love you…you are my family. I find peace in knowing that you are wholeheartedly in Heaven which means we get to meet again some day. I love you and dream about what kind of great big Angel with great big wings you’ll have. I love you, Mamaw.
There never seems enough time to love, laugh and share time with those we Love. I am so grateful for being able to visit with you this past Thanksgiving week (Yes, I see the irony in this statement..lol)
I had such a great time just hanging out and hearing your stories- I wish I would have spent more time with you Auntie!
We have spoken more in the last few years than ever before-I really enjoyed our many long conversations during my regular visits to my mother while in Phoenix- So Very thankful for that ❤️ I remember seeing you as such a Beautiful lady when I was little and came to appreciate and learn a lot from your bold feistiness as I grew older. You always who seemed to know exactly what you wanted and bravely went for it, you knew how to live well and create a beautiful home for your Loved ones. Your love for God and insistence on making sure His name was always with a capital G will stay with me forever Auntie Your passing on November 6th just hours after your sweet little dog Lucy Lu could not of been a coincidence! Praying for my cousins, Joey and Jennifer and Aunt Ellen too! Their strong Faith and bravery stayed by your side as you prepared to end your journey on this earth. I know this eased your transition and is a great example for us all
I Love you Aunt Pam xoxo
Rest in Peace Auntie❤️
Mother I am glad you’ve finally found peace and happiness! You have been through so much throughout your life and yet not all the time but most the time found a positive in many different situations. I will miss your laugh! I want to call and see how you’re doing and am saddened knowing I can’t talk to you anymore only through prayer! Tell Blayke I love and miss him dearly too! I love you!
R.I .P mom and I will see you again!
Pammy, I will will miss you my friend for an eternity! We had so many great times and shared so many tears! I will miss your deep hearty laugh! I’ll miss your love and even the times you were mad at me, for reasons I did know! May you rest in peace and also know, many have been blessed to have you in their lives! I love you!
Aunt Pam was a full of life she beautiful,loving,and caring love to my family and it’s tough and hard time God holds us all tight he’s hugging us and aunt Pam is now at peace and rejoicing in the love of gods house